
You are exhausted and resentful from doing everything.
You have an icky feeling after you interact with your husband.
You want to forgive him, but you just can't.
You are harsh with yourself, so you are harsh with others, and you don't know how to stop.
He's not a believer.
You feel confused, distant, or convicted in your relationship with Jesus because of your marriage.
You are so worn down from your husband's bad choices, you are not sure change is even possible.
You are stuck in a vicious cycle that you can't get out of that’s just making your marriage worse and worse. You can’t see clearly what you are doing on your side, but you know you must have blind spots.
You think you must be the only wife to cry herself to sleep every night from rejection (you're not).
He doesn't care about your feelings.
His bad choices really weigh on you.
You're unsure how to communicate - the harder you try, the worse things get.
He refuses to go to counseling.
If even one of these describes your situation, Strength & Dignity is for you. And you can come as you are.
You'll untangle your unhappiness from how he shows up. You'll get your life back as you learn to use the power of your own mind to make life easier…even if his behavior never changes. You will have peace.
Here's exactly how it will work:
1. Your happiness will no longer depend on how he shows up.
2. You'll learn my four step process for dismantling fear and choosing connection.
3. You'll embrace your feelings as important information, without letting them grab the steering wheel. You will learn to use the power of your own mind to make life easier…even if his behavior never changes. You will have peace.
4. You'll leverage the full power of receiving and gratitude to magnify the good, which is magnetic and brings out the best in your man.
5. You'll align with scripture and step into your purpose, becoming the kind of woman people talk about positively for generations.
6. You'll surround yourself with a community of women who have the same priorities, giving you strength and fresh ideas to experiment with new approaches in your marriage on the daily.Â
The result? You'll experience that your peace doesn't depend on circumstances - and your husband is a circumstance. You'll enjoy time with him - even holidays and vacations. You will KNOW you are on the same team...life problems don't have to be marriage problems ever again.Â
Romance will return more and more until every night feels like a date, and you will model healthy relationships for the generations to come.
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strength and dignity
For wives who love Jesus—and want to stop feeling stuck in their marriage.
Equal parts interpersonal skills and spiritual toolbox, this six month journey will leave you fluent in a new Kingdom language.
Here's how I personally walk you to your vision for your marriage. Clients can't get enough of these life changing calls!
- Weekly group coaching call, with plenty of opportunities to participate directly with me
- Weekly Spiritual Toolbox call with highly practical experiential, biblical teaching and then time to workshop it to apply to your marriage with me
- Unlimited written coaching in our online small group, an incredible community of wives who are cheering you on!
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GROUP COACHING
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Group coaching calls are a miracle.
Every time, each woman gets exactly what she needs - regardless of whether she's the one in the hotseat getting coached.
We think we don't want other people to know our problems.
But the most powerful relief and release comes when we realize - everyone has the same problem.

I'm Lucy
With a background as a licensed therapist, with decades of experience mentoring women, my marriage and life completely changed when I found the Six Intimacy Skills™ and again when they explosively met with a grounded, practical approach to the reality that "when you do things God's way, you get God's results." My coaching clients attest: this approach works.
As I implemented what I was learning I started to see a change in my husband. He started doing what I wanted him to do without me saying a word. I can't explain it! It just happened! You too can experience the same thing if you are willing to put into action what you learn.
Kimberly Sperry
A complete relief! It was such a breath of fresh air to receive gracious, godly, actionable wisdom from Lucy! No matter how convoluted I was in explaining what I was experiencing, somehow she was always able to simplify it in a way I felt empowered to walk toward peace & away from fear.
I recommend wives to just talk with Lucy about even just one issue & see how much clarity, wisdom, & peace they walk away with!
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Jill Glover Roberts
IS STRENGTH AND DIGNITYÂ RIGHT FOR YOU?
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If you've ever felt a disconnect between how you show up in your relationships and what God says about you, this six month experience will help you.
Similar to learning a language, you do need to spend time with these new ideas. This program will actually save you time, however, as you stop worrying about things you can't control FOR LIFE.

The official dates for this six month cohort are November 24 2025 - May 24 2026, however when you join now, you can get months of extra access for the same price!
From September 21 to November 23, Lucy will be on maternity leave. Clients are always telling me they wish they had more time to dig into The Treasure Trove and The Empowered Wife Course.This will be an opportunity to solidify your skills as you catch up with all the resources available in The Empowered Wife Course and The Treasure Trove. Our Facebook group will be there during this time to help you integrate your learning and wins!
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